Huffington Post Divorce Blogger Mark Baer’s latest post is entitled “Is Mediation About Reaching the Same Result in a More Efficient and Economic Manner?” This is a great question, and gets to the heart of an even more basic question, “Why mediation?” In my experience doing collaborative divorce (a form of mediation), the results are far superior to what a judge will decide at trial. In a true mediation process, the parties can shape a result tailored to their specific needs and interests.
After 35 years’ experience doing family law litigation and 12 years doing collaborative divorce and mediation, I have found that judges wield a blunt instrument; in mediation, the parties use a scalpel when resolving issues. And, as Mark Baer points out, judges bring their own unconscious biases to the process. Moreover, because the parties in a mediation “own” the result, there is usually very little post-settlement conflict after a mediation or collaborative divorce process. To read Mark Baer’s article, go to http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mark-baer/is-mediation-about-reachi_b_3526984.html
