Getting Started

I’m ready for a divorce, now what?

Ask Yourself

Here are some questions to ask yourself before you choose a family law attorney, and before deciding on the approach you want the attorney to take.

If your primary goal is:

• To protect your rights while resolving the issues reasonably and equitably?
• To stay out of court?
• To work out conflict with a minimum of emotional upheaval?

— you should consider selecting an attorney trained in Collaborative Law.

If your primary goal is:

• To “win” no matter what the costs?
• To protect your rights from a spouse who is determined to “win”?
• To protect yourself from an abusive spouse?

— you should select an attorney who is experienced with litigation and courtroom work.

Ask the Attorney

When selecting an attorney to handle a family law matter, here are some questions to ask the attorney in the initial consultation to see if you and a specific attorney are a good fit.

• How many years of experience do you have specifically in New York Matrimonial and Family Law?
• Will you be doing most of the work on my case, or will an associate be the primary attorney?
• What is your hourly rate? How many hours do you estimate you will need to spend on my case?

In Cases of Abuse

For prospective clients who are victims — or whose children are victims — of any serious abuse, make sure the attorney is experienced in dealing with issues of abuse and is available to take immediate legal action to protect you and/or your children.Top of Form